Now BEFORE you watch this, please check out my first video about Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zPopjuKuweg&list=PL_loxoCVsWqwRYQO-u0iW_bjL_DpWBbd8 That will help you better understand what BPD is so that you can then add on the idea of "quiet borderline" and what that may look like and feel like. So the traditional way that we see and experience BPD is a very outward expressing or anger out way. We can be very volatile in our relationships and even struggle with suicidality. We worry a lot about others leaving us and almost cannot trust them to stay! So we can get very upset and hurt. We express this outwardly and it can be very hard on us and those who we are in relationship with. However, there are many of us who may relate to the symptoms of BPD, but do not lash out or express any emotion outwardly. We may instead, express it inward, and take it out on ourselves solely. Obviously, everyone expresses their diagnosis differently, so you may identify with all or none of this. Just keep in mind that this is why we need to see a professional and get a proper diagnosis before we jump to any conclusions. Those of us with a "quiet borderline" may have really needed a better or more nurturing parent. This can lead us to feeling like we don't really exist or that what we need and want is not acceptable. Another portion of BPD that could be seen as a "quiet borderline" trait are the areas of impulsivity. We may binge eat or use drugs or alcohol to cope, both of which are things that do to harm ourselves and could be done in private without sharing these struggles with anyone. So you can see how it can differ person to person, and some of us may not have the traditional BPD experience. Please keep in mind that no matter what diagnosis we are given, we still need to ask questions and express your own feelings and symptoms so that our treatment team can better understand what we are going through, and make sure we are getting the proper support! YOU CAN RECOVER!! REMEMBER THAT! MY FREE WORKBOOKS: Self-Harm workbook http://goo.gl/N7LtwU Eating Disorder workbook http://goo.gl/DjOmkC My SCHEDULE: MONDAY - New video release http://goo.gl/OUEsgM TUESDAY - Tumblr Tuesday Vlog #KatiFAQ - https://goo.gl/79fMfa WEDNESDAY - Website & YouTube Vlog #KatiFAQ - https://goo.gl/CIp9b9 THURSDAY - Twitter Thursday Vlog #KatiFAQ - https://goo.gl/kL7ZjX FRIDAY - Facebook Friday Vlog #KatiFAQ - https://goo.gl/kjYLeR My PO Box: 1223 Wilshire Blvd. #665 Santa Monica, CA 90403 OTHER: My Website: https://www.katimorton.com Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/katimorton Tumblr: https://www.katimorton.tumblr.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/katimorton1 Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/katimorton1 Help us caption & translate this video! http://amara.org/v/GEht/ -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Mitchell Davis talks Agoraphobia, OCD & Panic Attacks | On The Couch Ep. 3 with Kati Morton" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ra8gUzMUuXY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- recovery cutting psychology therapist
Crafty Chan: FUCKING HELL! FUCK, someone BETTTER HELP ME WITH THIS. I don't know what I have a complex, a mental disorder a fucking foot fetish, but I know I have SOMETHING. I'm super shy/like being unique/think everyone is stupid then immediately feel guilty about it/thinks everyone hates me but they just don't know how great I am and how much better I am than them/doesn't think anything is special about me/thinks that no one notice me. My parents used to be very overprotective so if anyone scolds me(like a teacher) very sad :(. Scared that people will bully me so NEVER talks...done!
Okay can anyone help me figure out what I have or if I'm normal
Corrente Inversa: I think that Kurt Cobain maybe had quiet borderline...
A'oi Bartholomew: BPD (and bipolar) are not "forever disorders"... CBD oil heals these disorders... <3
Melpomene: I'm scared of BPD. I'm afraid that I have it. The quiet type though. Hate how I self sabotage and just fail to live my life fully and independently.
I'm so scared
Debbie Bonneau: Please be in NYC!!
dannythegiraffe: I'm pretty sure I might have quiet bpd. Recently I've been getting better on not letting myself get carried away with my thoughts, but it's always in the back of my mind... does anyone have any tips or coping strategies that might help? I really don't want to feel like this anymore :/
Jennifer Maxine: Borderlines are chameleons, they would be reserved around a quiet individual or loud around a more boisterous individual
MermaidsAreNice: Thank you so much for explaining that.
Deana Sherrick: Is drinking till you throw up a form of self-harm?
Elisa Haid: Litteraly i cried towards the end because thats exactly what my therapist would tell me all the time.."you cant fully recover... all you can do is to learn how to deal with it".... and I get so frustrated when I think about that .... why should I fight... why should I put so much energy in "trying to deal with it" if there wount be an end....
Sydnie Andrus: you're awesome and please don't stop making videos!! you're helping so many people so much!!
Susan Dove: i have always had a superstrong sense of self/ right and wrong...otherwise i fit ALL the criteria...no suicide attempts but fantasies of death ...what do u make of that??
Ciara Lanham: I was just recently diagnosed with BPD and your videos have helped me to understand myself so much better. Thank you ❤
AllyKat1236: My Fiance who works with borderlines at his job all the time at a Psych ward thinks I'm quiet borderline, but my Therapist thinks I have Bipolar 2, rapid cycling cyclothymia....sighs its infuriating. I just wanna be me, and not freak out on people all the time.
P.S. My mother is VERY borderline and my grandmother is Histerionic and i suspect bipolar.
Sara Taher: This is me ..
Jason Allison: thanks
이영수: QUIET BORDERLINE is real. becuase , i was . i am the QUIET BORDERLINE. thanks mom . i find myself
Melissa Youmans: This makes so much sense, thank you!
Tyson Sprinter: 5:13 "does that make sense", that was so pretty lol.
shovelhead biker: I have tried so hard to let my many theripists over the years to see what I am going through by letting them see my journal that I wright in but no one will. it is hard for me to describe to them what it is like for me. is this normal for them to do . I just don't think they care and they want the money . any thoughts ???? thanks xoxoxox joe
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