QUIET BORDERLINE! What is it? Mental Health, BPD & Kati Morton Borderline Personality Disorder?

Now BEFORE you watch this, please check out my first video about Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zPopjuKuweg&list=PL_loxoCVsWqwRYQO-u0iW_bjL_DpWBbd8 That will help you better understand what BPD is so that you can then add on the idea of "quiet borderline" and what that may look like and feel like. So the traditional way that we see and experience BPD is a very outward expressing or anger out way. We can be very volatile in our relationships and even struggle with suicidality. We worry a lot about others leaving us and almost cannot trust them to stay! So we can get very upset and hurt. We express this outwardly and it can be very hard on us and those who we are in relationship with. However, there are many of us who may relate to the symptoms of BPD, but do not lash out or express any emotion outwardly. We may instead, express it inward, and take it out on ourselves solely. Obviously, everyone expresses their diagnosis differently, so you may identify with all or none of this. Just keep in mind that this is why we need to see a professional and get a proper diagnosis before we jump to any conclusions. Those of us with a "quiet borderline" may have really needed a better or more nurturing parent. This can lead us to feeling like we don't really exist or that what we need and want is not acceptable. Another portion of BPD that could be seen as a "quiet borderline" trait are the areas of impulsivity. We may binge eat or use drugs or alcohol to cope, both of which are things that do to harm ourselves and could be done in private without sharing these struggles with anyone. So you can see how it can differ person to person, and some of us may not have the traditional BPD experience. Please keep in mind that no matter what diagnosis we are given, we still need to ask questions and express your own feelings and symptoms so that our treatment team can better understand what we are going through, and make sure we are getting the proper support! YOU CAN RECOVER!! REMEMBER THAT! MY FREE WORKBOOKS: Self-Harm workbook http://goo.gl/N7LtwU Eating Disorder workbook http://goo.gl/DjOmkC My SCHEDULE: MONDAY - New video release http://goo.gl/OUEsgM TUESDAY - Tumblr Tuesday Vlog #KatiFAQ - https://goo.gl/79fMfa WEDNESDAY - Website & YouTube Vlog #KatiFAQ - https://goo.gl/CIp9b9 THURSDAY - Twitter Thursday Vlog #KatiFAQ - https://goo.gl/kL7ZjX FRIDAY - Facebook Friday Vlog #KatiFAQ - https://goo.gl/kjYLeR My PO Box: 1223 Wilshire Blvd. #665 Santa Monica, CA 90403 OTHER: My Website: https://www.katimorton.com Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/katimorton Tumblr: https://www.katimorton.tumblr.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/katimorton1 Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/katimorton1 Help us caption & translate this video! http://amara.org/v/GEht/ -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Mitchell Davis talks Agoraphobia, OCD & Panic Attacks | On The Couch Ep. 3 with Kati Morton" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ra8gUzMUuXY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- recovery cutting psychology therapist

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Mello 042: i don't want to self diagnose but you're pretty much describing me

Paola Vanegas: I started seeing a psychologist and I finally got to ask her if she thinks I’m classic or quiet borderline. I was so shocked to find out she had no idea what that was.... i had to explain to her and then she determined I’m classic. Does this mean she’s not a good therapist, meaning this is a red flag?? 🤔

Onkel Reisende Mac: I am a therapist from Norway and i am 99,9% sure that i have BPD, but i don't want to seek a therapist myself to get that diagnosis. The reason for that is that i often hear other therapists talks about Borderlines as the trash that nobody want to work with. And if i get into a physical emergency of some sort, let's say heart attack. I want to be shure that the doctors take me seriously so that i don't die unnecessary if it happens.

kate carpio: i wish i took psychology instead... if i did, i wudve identified/diagnosed myself or my younger self wts wrong with me..... y was i always quiet that i felt dead? y didn't i make any friends during childhood n teenage yrs? n other things that ive just realized that r odd now that i think bout it
.. even my parents pointed it out when they said i was scared of something, but i don't know what...
(psychiatrist or therapies r not a thing in my country so there aren't many clinics, n if there r, they'd only b available to rich ppl...)

btw, awesome videos :)

Studienzwecken37: Love these videos but:
diagnoses=plural, diagnosis=singular
criteria=plural, criterion=singular

a p a t h e t i c: Yay! I wanna get better

TTundragrizzly: When you say "we all live in the grey,". I don't. My whole life has been either black or white. I have both extremes. I struggle mightely when I attempt to live in the grey, as a normal person lives.

TTundragrizzly: When you say "self harm", I dont think it just means like cutting yourself etc. It can even be something lime masturbation. That is very harmful to ourselves.

LittleAikutie: This applies to me so goddamn well! I feel like the little things I do to lash out occasionally are allow about my tone of voice or the things I DON'T do as opposed to what I DO do. Almost all of my anger is directed inward, and I feel like everything comes back to my own inadequacy. Thank you so much for this video, I think this will be really helpful for my appointment on Thursday :)

Maria Muniz: Hmmm, that’s me but... borderline of what exactly?

Jan Taljaard: My mother is borderline , my brother was the scapegoat, now he is an alcoholic who beats his wife . What can I do to help him?

Eileen Fuentes: I'm trying to see if you have a video on how Bipolar 2 and BPD relate and how to tell the two apart. I love your videos! I wish you were my therapist. It's so hard finding a therapist that truly listens and understands so that they can help you reach your highest potential. I feel like mine uses a cookie cutter approach and doesn't get that no two people are the same. Another in my first Psychiatrist always put me on the newest medicines (the sample packs) and would change them up so often and never titrated me off, so I never knew what was working and what didn't. I just know I was feeling miserable like a zombie. He kept changing my diagnosis so I never knew what was going on. I asked him about CBT and he literally said to me that for me no amount of therapy has helped his patients. That was the last time I saw him, I left the building and tossed my new starter pack of medicine that had just come out that he tried to start me on. At one point he had worked me up to being on 6 medications. One day I took my new prescription and felt like I was going to have a panic attack when I was grocery shopping. Then it clicked - it was my first dose of a new stimulant medication that he had prescribed ON TOP of another I was already taking. I was literally on 2 stimulants at once! I was feeling so awful, the worst part was it wasn't something that I could make go away. I felt like my heart was going to explode.
I was scared. I felt out of control like my brain and my body were disconnected from each other. It was like I was given an IV of concentrated Red Bull.

It's very reassuring to watch your videos and see that there are good people out there like you. I am sure you are a busy woman and the fact that you take your time to make YouTube videos to educate people is a blessing to so many. I love learning about my diagnosis through your videos as well as learning about mental health in general with all these disorders. I find it fascinating and I have learned so much from you. The best thing about you is that you are another human just like us whereas a lot of doctors seem like a different species. At the end of the day you are a human just like us who has a passion to help others.

EsotericOccultist: I noticed most commentators are female. Is it true 25% of women have been diagnosed with a mental illness?

Brownwoman ofGod: I haven't been told i have this but I sure did identify with a bomber of these traits. Maybe me and my clinician can talk about it on my next appointment.

Jamie Joy Houck Gatto: Sometimes narcissistic abuse can cause borderline tendencies. There's a funny saying that sometimes can ring true, "If you think you're crazy, make sure you're not surrounded by assholes."

Teagus: What she said just described me

Ingvild Kvakestad: I am crying cause I relate so Much but if I get help that person will think I am crazy I am scared to Get this diagnoses I dont want to be crazy

unluckyomen13: Any maladaptive daydreamers with BPD?

unluckyomen13: I'm mostly a quiet borderline but am slightly more of a classic borderline towards my parents + siblings.

Dinky Me: Anyone who's been told they have that needs to read Pete Walkers book - From surviving to thriving. There's too much cross over with CPTSD from childhood abuse.

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