QUIET BORDERLINE! What is it? Mental Health, BPD & Kati Morton Borderline Personality Disorder?

Now BEFORE you watch this, please check out my first video about Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zPopjuKuweg&list=PL_loxoCVsWqwRYQO-u0iW_bjL_DpWBbd8 That will help you better understand what BPD is so that you can then add on the idea of "quiet borderline" and what that may look like and feel like. So the traditional way that we see and experience BPD is a very outward expressing or anger out way. We can be very volatile in our relationships and even struggle with suicidality. We worry a lot about others leaving us and almost cannot trust them to stay! So we can get very upset and hurt. We express this outwardly and it can be very hard on us and those who we are in relationship with. However, there are many of us who may relate to the symptoms of BPD, but do not lash out or express any emotion outwardly. We may instead, express it inward, and take it out on ourselves solely. Obviously, everyone expresses their diagnosis differently, so you may identify with all or none of this. Just keep in mind that this is why we need to see a professional and get a proper diagnosis before we jump to any conclusions. Those of us with a "quiet borderline" may have really needed a better or more nurturing parent. This can lead us to feeling like we don't really exist or that what we need and want is not acceptable. Another portion of BPD that could be seen as a "quiet borderline" trait are the areas of impulsivity. We may binge eat or use drugs or alcohol to cope, both of which are things that do to harm ourselves and could be done in private without sharing these struggles with anyone. So you can see how it can differ person to person, and some of us may not have the traditional BPD experience. Please keep in mind that no matter what diagnosis we are given, we still need to ask questions and express your own feelings and symptoms so that our treatment team can better understand what we are going through, and make sure we are getting the proper support! YOU CAN RECOVER!! REMEMBER THAT! MY FREE WORKBOOKS: Self-Harm workbook http://goo.gl/N7LtwU Eating Disorder workbook http://goo.gl/DjOmkC My SCHEDULE: MONDAY - New video release http://goo.gl/OUEsgM TUESDAY - Tumblr Tuesday Vlog #KatiFAQ - https://goo.gl/79fMfa WEDNESDAY - Website & YouTube Vlog #KatiFAQ - https://goo.gl/CIp9b9 THURSDAY - Twitter Thursday Vlog #KatiFAQ - https://goo.gl/kL7ZjX FRIDAY - Facebook Friday Vlog #KatiFAQ - https://goo.gl/kjYLeR My PO Box: 1223 Wilshire Blvd. #665 Santa Monica, CA 90403 OTHER: My Website: https://www.katimorton.com Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/katimorton Tumblr: https://www.katimorton.tumblr.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/katimorton1 Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/katimorton1 Help us caption & translate this video! http://amara.org/v/GEht/ -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Mitchell Davis talks Agoraphobia, OCD & Panic Attacks | On The Couch Ep. 3 with Kati Morton" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ra8gUzMUuXY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- recovery cutting psychology therapist

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Erich B.: Yup, quiet, self sabotage and intense dysphoria - that's me.

Cece Cobain: Hi Katy, I have an important question. After my suicide attempt, I was told by the hospital therapist that I probably had BPD (we talked a long time togheter) but the therapist I was already seeing for my depression said to me that I can't be diagnosed with BPD because I'm a minor. However, I read a lot and watched a lot of videos about BPD and I'm so sure I have it... I know I can't self-diagnose but I really feel connected to what you say when you talk about the bevahiors and criterias. I feel very frustrated about that because I can't tolk freely about it with my therapist, I can't explain it to my friends and family, and it would make it a lot easier if I could just tell them to look for BPD online...
Also sometimes I wonder if I actually have BPD or not but it's not just depression... I feel confused and I just don't know what's wrong with me and why my therapy and pills aren't doing anything

Darcey Achin: I think I have both. I act out in Anger then feel bad about my behavior and pick at my skin and isolate and feel like there is nothing I can do to control my behavior.

James Bry: we can heal our hurt younger self..tap in to your younger self..do things you enjoy as a child..dont continue to live how ordinary 9-5 people do..you might need to stop working for a while..find peace..go to nature..try Buddhism..Alan watts videos are great as well. I WISH US ALL PEACE AND HEALING.

david doggy: i have tried to talk with therapist but hear where i live , their dum i feel way smarter then them , i could help them more then they can help me ..

david doggy: do autism spectrum disorder have some borderline traits?

Abyss Walker: 2 years ago I came to a psychiatrist and told her that I probably have borderline over what I read in online psychology blog. but she diagnosed me of ADHD instead. I'm doing medication and now I still believe that I have this BPD because I still have that fear of abandonment, etc. she was not diagnosed me with BPD because I wasn't suicidial, I didn't cut myself, and I wasn't sure how "feeling empty" was like. but now I still believe that I have this BPD, and I really want to be cured because I have difficulity to trust people, especially SO. I suspect 2, BPD and Schizophrenia, but I wasn't very sure about the later. Can you help me to determine what I actually experiencing because I am very detached from my emotions, I don't know what I feel about somethings sometimes, and afraid that it might effect my diagnosis

bahumbug: its funny you mentioned being passed around by clinicians.. the first and only time I've reached out to a therapist, after 5 weeks she recommended i see a psychiatrist instead for medication.I didn't go.. still slowly dying and confused. Good times

J Pierre: Oh you nailed my issues so well. I think when I've told someone that I need something, I think I've expressed a. Lot of anger , but later I'm told that I didn't .. I have exploded on the phone screaming and raging until I can't control my body shaking. But I have not had that happen in a long time. I have been practicing DBT and CBT since

J Pierre: I am a quiet BPD. I smile , but quietly think how angry I am that it took 43 min. To get my hamburger at Johnny Rockets . I getangry with people in lines and want to lash out but don't . In my mind I've done horrible things and said disgusting things to people. I refuse to let it out, and it destroys me when I'm alone. I always believed I didn't exist because my parents had a younger child (lots f attention and doting) , and older child (lots of arguments and involvement with) . I help others when they ask with anything, then I hate them when they leave me and don't help me.

tranquility: I get confused, bec you say we have this illness makes me think you have the illnesses that you are talking about lol. Every single person who I know who is mentally out there, all of them are getting worse. I have yet to meet someone who gets better. I think this is due to their desire consciously or unconsciously to self-sabotage

Maya Armour: What would you recommend for a couple that both have bpd but one is quiet and the other is loud and tend to trigger each other, but love and depend on each other?

Draize: To say the least... Thank you so much. I have felt so crappy hearing and often reading about BPD being a disorder that may never fade and it's gotten so disheartening and frightening thinking I may have to be like this forever. I sometimes forget that I gotta power through what the naysayers may think and know that this can be overcome one day. <3

Adriana DROPDEADRIAN: As the introverted loner that I am, the "quiet borderline" concept really resonates with me. Especially the part about in or out aggression. It's the times when I'm finally around people that my behavior is more traditionally exemplary of BPD. Quiet BPD explains the inner chaos of suffering from the disorder.

John Savage: So this is more of an introverted bpd? My dad is bpd and I feel like I'm bpd but I am much less likely to lash or act out but rather internalize my anger and rage.

Kaynos: You are describing me perfectly. Except for relationships. What is relationship ? I never experienced this, i'm 45.

emotionally unstable: i have gender dysphoria and feel like the quiet borderline is me... can they affect each other?

Kiss My Ass: I feel like I am completely invisible.No one would care if I died today.That's why my name is what it is.I now hate the whole world.No one cares about anyone.

Fiona Johnson: i really love the way you present information in your videos. i love how you'll say things like "many of us experience bpd this way" or "some of us may feel like this". all lot of mental health videos are directed towards a neurotypical audience and phrase things like "they don't experience things the way we do" and your videos feel more normalizing and accepting of mental health issues rather than giving an us vs them vibe. idk if you'll see this lol but thanks for making such great stuff

Diana Ordaz: Can you please make a video explaining the differences between anorexia nervosa & hypergymnasia/anorexia athletica ? i read online but its easier for me to understand it by hearing it be explained more thouroughly .. thanks☺.

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