QUIET BORDERLINE! What is it? Mental Health, BPD & Kati Morton Borderline Personality Disorder?

Now BEFORE you watch this, please check out my first video about Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zPopjuKuweg&list=PL_loxoCVsWqwRYQO-u0iW_bjL_DpWBbd8 That will help you better understand what BPD is so that you can then add on the idea of "quiet borderline" and what that may look like and feel like. So the traditional way that we see and experience BPD is a very outward expressing or anger out way. We can be very volatile in our relationships and even struggle with suicidality. We worry a lot about others leaving us and almost cannot trust them to stay! So we can get very upset and hurt. We express this outwardly and it can be very hard on us and those who we are in relationship with. However, there are many of us who may relate to the symptoms of BPD, but do not lash out or express any emotion outwardly. We may instead, express it inward, and take it out on ourselves solely. Obviously, everyone expresses their diagnosis differently, so you may identify with all or none of this. Just keep in mind that this is why we need to see a professional and get a proper diagnosis before we jump to any conclusions. Those of us with a "quiet borderline" may have really needed a better or more nurturing parent. This can lead us to feeling like we don't really exist or that what we need and want is not acceptable. Another portion of BPD that could be seen as a "quiet borderline" trait are the areas of impulsivity. We may binge eat or use drugs or alcohol to cope, both of which are things that do to harm ourselves and could be done in private without sharing these struggles with anyone. So you can see how it can differ person to person, and some of us may not have the traditional BPD experience. Please keep in mind that no matter what diagnosis we are given, we still need to ask questions and express your own feelings and symptoms so that our treatment team can better understand what we are going through, and make sure we are getting the proper support! YOU CAN RECOVER!! REMEMBER THAT! MY FREE WORKBOOKS: Self-Harm workbook http://goo.gl/N7LtwU Eating Disorder workbook http://goo.gl/DjOmkC My SCHEDULE: MONDAY - New video release http://goo.gl/OUEsgM TUESDAY - Tumblr Tuesday Vlog #KatiFAQ - https://goo.gl/79fMfa WEDNESDAY - Website & YouTube Vlog #KatiFAQ - https://goo.gl/CIp9b9 THURSDAY - Twitter Thursday Vlog #KatiFAQ - https://goo.gl/kL7ZjX FRIDAY - Facebook Friday Vlog #KatiFAQ - https://goo.gl/kjYLeR My PO Box: 1223 Wilshire Blvd. #665 Santa Monica, CA 90403 OTHER: My Website: https://www.katimorton.com Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/katimorton Tumblr: https://www.katimorton.tumblr.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/katimorton1 Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/katimorton1 Help us caption & translate this video! http://amara.org/v/GEht/ -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Mitchell Davis talks Agoraphobia, OCD & Panic Attacks | On The Couch Ep. 3 with Kati Morton" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ra8gUzMUuXY -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- recovery cutting psychology therapist

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Flower Petal: Please please do a video on psychosis with bpd.

Bellering B: 10 years... I have to stay this way for 10 years. oh my God I can't.

Realm roy: ++++++ I don't know about you guys but I believe the dating world is saturated with female BPD's. Also my ex is still in therapy and she has been going off and on for around 12 years and I still couldn't stay with her. I am a firm believer in the right tool for the job situation and I don't believe just any old therapist will do, I believe you need a DBT therapist . Because what I heard was you need to have the right therapist (DBT) or you can run the risk of getting damaged even more.

ElizaLanga: When this describes how you act...

alice absolem: Thank you sooo much!!! I love u for that!!❤️ I'm stuck in a hole and I can't get out thank you for being there and give some hope❤️😔

itsjay: and i have even more reason to get a therapist. probably wont tho, my parents wanted to get someone who could brainwash me into being someone else cough cough straight cough cis

AMAZON BAM: HELP!! Please come to the UK! (to me) You seem so genuine and empathetic. I could write a book about the appalling experiences I have had FOR OVER TWO DECADES and am still having.  My wonderful  partner who cares for me is not well. In nutshell (I want to go the paper) I have attempted suicide several times within two decades but it happened a few weeks back and I was on section 136 (this appalling Senior Nurse I complained about to P.A.Ls was once again, mocking me, abusive and coercive. They handed me over to her when I needed to speak to someone. She is even threatened me with calling the Police- for NO reason!) Unfortunately this is not uncommon on the NHS. There is systemic abuse and I have witnessed it with another patient. (These are genuinely caring women but one of them was a grown woman in tears. Funding is the old hat "excuse.") I lost my Late Mother (who would be 79) in 2009 to Peritoneal Cancer and was made homeless by Landlord posing as a CPN a week before she died. I WAS CLINGY AND EMOTIONALLY DEPNEDENT on her for EVERYTHING. I have no one else except two bully sisters who are estranged, one of whom has had a sexchange. I cannot deal with them. I recently found my Father (this is all in a nutshell) on Facebook, despite the fact that he has said TERRIBLE things about my Mother when she was AMAZING. H neglected me and was violent to my eldest sister and Mother but blames her for everything and says she deserved to die by act of Heavenly Father in long posts and talks all about himself. They met at sea and it was a mistake. I am desperate...I went up Beachy Head 2nd world famous suicide spot twice in two consecutive days and then took a Paracetamol OD and then stabbed my wrist. No one will do anything and the service providers are rude and hung up on both me and partner.....I have 12 years of clutter, a very rare symptom that few recognise but all dismiss. I have mixed BPD and a little of this and that and all INTENSE but overall, TORTURED... I have my back up plan of tent and charcoal in my head and thinking of stabbing my stomach area with sharp knife....Apart from my partner, I have no one. I CANNOT GO ON, IT IS ALL I SAY TO HIM... I live in temporary accommodation and I have no one and nowhere to go..( no family or friends.) "THEY" WANT ME DEAD. NO ONE WILL HELP

TheHonest_Senpai: well, I was more on the Classic BPD But after i found out my BPD, I am trying to keep it in, I dont know whats going on, but I think it was a shock for me, or maybe i am just the classuc one

Massiel Ventura: Hey Kati! Thank you so much for your videos!!!! I think I struggle with BPD because I've been trying to understand why I struggle so deeply with depression even when it goes away sometimes. I have suicidal ideation also. I have finally found a disorder that sums up exactly how I feel and it feels like a relief. But I feel like the only thing that wouldn't validate that this might be what I'm struggling with is that I don't struggle with self-harm (cutting, burning, etc), never had suicidal attempts, or I have had a traumatic childhood.. I think. One thing I can really point out is that my father left my mom and I when I was 3 yrs old and I used to be depressed as a child after that although I got better later on...

Anyways, is it possible to not have self-harm issues, not have attempted suidcide, and not have had a traumatic past (sexual abuse, physical abuse, etc) but still have BPD?

(Don't worry, I love your advice of going to see a professional. I am doing so this week. 💛)

manka mankowska: thank you so much 💛💜💚

Diana Castro: I know this was a video uploaded a long time ago, but as I just found it, I really want to ask: what about the other 50% of patients that after working for over 10 years in their recovery are still showing patterns of behavior that meet full criteria for BPD? In their cases isn't the disorder a life long thing? Shouldn't the conversation on those cases center around wellness and functionality, instead of recovery?

I ask as a 28 yrs old, who has been in therapy well over 10 years, and this still kicks my ass.

never mind: Thank you I finally know what it is. I have suffered 58 years not one therapist has even tried to help me. Just seeing this already helps so much.Now I know what I am fighting finally!!

Katie Rauff: I've known for a long time that I'm a Quiet Borderline, and I've read as much as I could about it... but nothing comes close to how spot on this is. Thank you for being so validating.

Jahmai Ulufale: thanks!! for ur videos it's really understanding

Natalie Rounsville: My psychiatrist never told me why she thinks i have bpd

Rachel Stewart: This was so interesting. When I was diagnosed as having BPD, I didn't see it at all. My sister is a textbook case of the disorder and we're nothing alike. Now I see why! She's very anger-out, whereas I'm anger-in, as you say. Thank you!

GrayFoxVIII: this is definitely me I dont have insurance and I even when I did I went to several mental health experts beeen admitted to several psych wards and nothing I am given ever seems to work only intensify my delusions and give me terrifying dreams I feel as if our issue is just bad wiring in the brain and we are broken defunct human beings and there is truly no fixing it with drugs or useless talk therapy. Its hopeless. Therapists only option in treating you is manipulating you into believing there are proven ways to help you when there isnt.

Nerdy Agnostic: Interesting. I'm diagnosed CPTSD because of the violence and abuse I endured at the hands of a bpd mom and bpd sister who were very much outward acting, but I am very internalized with anything I feel, but I still have that underlying terror of being alone or abandoned or unloved. I wonder if I might have some of this.

James Mertens: does anyone know how to bring this up to a therapist? ive been seeing one for my anxiety& depression for a couple months and i dont really know how to bring up how i think this may describe my symptoms and their cause better

Declan Patrick Cavanaugh: Beautiful video. Thank you.

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