Breaking Control Dramas (Part 1 of 7) Why we use Control Dramas

http://ivanstein.com Workshop #2 provides a comprehensive understanding of how breaking control dramas can accelerate your ability to manifest positive experiences. You will learn the four basic control dramas, how to recognize them and how to rid them from your life. This workshop will answer the questions of why people use control dramas, where we learned them, why we get caught in them, and how to break them permanently. You will be given exercises and tools that you can apply in every day experiences and see immediate results. You will also learn how we have been programmed from birth to use control dramas to take energy from others and why we can get drained of energy when we get caught in control dramas. This video focuses on defining the four control dramas; how they are related to one another and trigger each other; why we have come to use and depend on control dramas for our very existence. Click here for a Special Offer of this video series on DVD: http://ivanstein.com/store/special-offers

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Tanya Lee-Cox: Thanks Ivan, great training. I want to keep these closely in mind in my job as an Employment Consultant working with job seekers who don't really want to look for jobs. Love this series. Thank you :)

george bush: most people don't have any water either, compassion for others. Most people don't want to hear about problems. It doesn't bother me cause i have the answers. People that block others on this channel are control freaks.

george bush: i feel you have to know the person when you are out in public with them, also couples that play together stay together.

Ivan Stein: @TheNorcalMac Not sure, but you might try contacting the author James Redfield.

Dylan M: @spiritman2012 thanks for the fast reply, i've watched all your vids, not sure how i had missed that, haha. But would you happen to know where the Author got the idea from?

Ivan Stein: @disclosurenow9 Ignoring a CD is not a viable solution to breaking it. When you remove your energy , attention, and attachment to the CD, there is a period of time through which the controller will transform. This may include raising the CD or changing it, but if you are able to maintain your clarity of the situation and remain centered, the controller will eventually burn out on trying to keep you hooked. The time this takes is relative to the depth of their reliance on the CD.

disclosurenow9: How do you deal with a family member who does all of these to the extreme? Ignoring only escalates it.

Ivan Stein: @TheNorcalMac I mention in the video that I was introduced to the concept of control dramas from The Celestine Prophecy book. From this awareness, I began learning where they develop, how they evolve, what they reveal about self and others, how to use that knowledge to heal my own issues, and how to break them.

Dylan M: Is this from the book "the celestine prophecy", Or did the book get "controll dramma's" from some one else? Basically i'm asking who thought of the philosophy "control drama"

frank stein.: @SovereignBeing you don't learn anything from abusive people. I only isolate from abusive people, problem is most people are unhealthy in this country, and most unhealthy people like to abuse others. Watch all the zeitgeist movies.

Ivan Stein: @fishintheflow Experience are provided as an opportunity to learn or understand something at a deeper level. These lessons are always about self and not about other selves. What we learn in any experience is based completely on our perspectives and beliefs at that moment in time. As we grow and learn, our perspectives and beliefs evolve with our consciousness. What someone learns from any experience or control dramas may vary, however, they will always learn something if they are listening.

fishintheflow: Is it energy that is sought? Or is it simply a sense of reality; so the "winner" has a greater sense of the realness of themselves and their ways, whilst the loser feels diminished.

Lust oderFrustTV: Hi Ivan, what I do nt understand is why if I search other Videos very early on (after putting in a few letters) I get suggestions of possible filmtitels. With your videos I do not get a suggestion even when I have typed in every letter. Can you improve this so people thta look for your videos can find you easier and faster. Kara

Ivan Stein: @Princesstipsy2 There are more factors involved in a child's personality than just teaching them with loving intent and responsibility. A child's character is also defined by when and where they were born (i.e. astrology), the karma they brought forward, and the lessons they agreed to learn in this lifetime. However, unless the parents had mastered the art of breaking and not using control dramas before the child was born, the child will have learned and use control dramas like everyone else.

Ivan Stein: Yes, it is always easier to see someone else's control drama (CD) than to see your own. This is why every experience is an opportunity for growth as they reflect what we are unable to see within ourselves. CD's can come in any form of thoughts, words, and actions. One way to improve on yourself is to learn how to step back from a situation and perform an objective self-evaluation. Another thing is to choose a role model that inspires you. The two can be useful in answer your own questions.

frank stein.: @caliangel4life the only thing going on is greed and corruption. money controls everything.

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