Brené Brown on Blame

You are probably a bit of a blamer - most of us are. But why should we give it up? In this witty sequel to our most watched RSA Short, inspirational thinker Brené Brown considers why we blame others, how it sabotages our relationships, and why we desperately need to move beyond this toxic behaviour. Voice: Dr Brené Brown Animation: Katy Davis AKA Gobblynne http://www.gobblynne.com Production and Editing: Al Francis-Sears and Abi Stephenson Watch the original talk here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sXSjc-pbXk4 Follow the RSA on Twitter: https://twitter.com/RSAEvents Like the RSA on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/thersaorg

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Lucy A: please make more of this.. the lesson stick.

Catherine Ogwuru: I just got schooled by you. Thank you. I blame people a whole lot when things don't go my way, but sometimes underneath it all, I know it's my fault. Thank you once again.

Bre Klein: These videos are so brilliant

Luis Yedra: Very teaching. Thank you Brene.!

Vianês Amaral: Amei a animação! Muito boa!

Mahir Cecen: Now this is a video every League of Legends player needs to watch

RedZack: nocur3 brought me here.

MultiJellybones: dota 2 brought me here

Hayedeh Daftari: Beautifully described

Jackie Moreau: My ex once blamed me (with screaming and cussing and threatening) for one of our plumbing truck's engines nearly blowing up because.....
The night before as he was changing the oil in the truck, I took a glass of iced tea to the garage for him because it was hot and I thought he could use a drink.
I sat it on the shelf and told him it was there.
So he said that because I did that and he got up for a drink, he forgot to tighten the oil pan/gasket (?) and the oil leaked out.
Therefore, it was my fault that the truck leaked oil as he drove it the next day.
Top that! Lol!

Jackie: Loved this!!

A Deeper Look: I understand that Steve agreed to come home by 10:30PM. However by taking a deeper look, it did make me want to ask why she was requesting that he come home at a certain time so that she could go to sleep. That's HER responsibility not HIS.

Samereen Adams: I.m in love with this woman

Edgar Rolla: Cool thought. Really enlightening.
Tough, I missed one connection: spend less time trying to figure out who to blame and more time focusing on how to fix it or not let it happen again.
Does it make sense? (keep in mind, I'm new to the channel)

Felicity Greenham: Love it!

Julia Gowe: Wish I had discovered Brene Brown's work a decade ago. It would have saved me so much heartache. She is brilliant and so human.

Lori V.: Does anyone know where I can find this talk where she talks live? Thank you!

SlippersTM: she's incredible with words!!

toxic blamer: awsome video funny

TerryhomesRealtor: Awesome short video on BLAME

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