How to speak so that people want to listen | Julian Treasure

Have you ever felt like you're talking, but nobody is listening? Here's Julian Treasure to help you fix that. As the sound expert demonstrates some useful vocal exercises and shares tips on how to speak with empathy, he offers his vision for a sonorous world of listening and understanding. TEDTalks is a daily video podcast of the best talks and performances from the TED Conference, where the world's leading thinkers and doers give the talk of their lives in 18 minutes (or less). Look for talks on Technology, Entertainment and Design -- plus science, business, global issues, the arts and much more. Find closed captions and translated subtitles in many languages at http://www.ted.com/translate Follow TED news on Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/tednews Like TED on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TED Subscribe to our channel: http://www.youtube.com/user/TEDtalksDirector

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Meenu Nagpal: at 1:24 the old man in the audience wearing specs is sleeping..

Charles Gold: Brilliant

Saurav Kapoor: I GUESS, YOU HAVE TRAINED OUR PRIME MINISTER BECAUSE HE Has ALL THESE QUALITIES. AND ALSO HE IS THE GREATEST LEADER OF OUR COUNTRY SINCE INDIPENDANCE.
APLAUSSES FROM INDIA ONE OF THE BEST TED TALKS

Enver Hoxha: Sound is meaning:
Haec ubi dicta cavum conversa cuspide montem
impulit in latus ac venti velut agmine facto
Qua data porta ruunt, et terras turbine perflant.
Don't you hear the storm?

GB DTG PRINTER: Nawadays If you pay Money everybody will listen.they will listen as long as you pay.

sebasman1000: I have all these sjns

Pranav Joglekar: 1:24 oldie's taking a nap

drzsL: ah the irony at 5:57

Amp: These are also part of our personality. Without any of this I don't understand how anyone can have a conversation of any value. Trying to be positive all the time, you end up lying to yourself. People's attitude these days are so selfish. Take someone who wants to vent or is asking for help, that would deemed as negative and self-loathing, so they avoid that person. People that have their life together will obviously speak at arms length.

Angela Maria Vaida: People may still not talk to you after you follow all these steps, but I truly think that, beside trying to make people listen, you just feel better about yourself. Ask yourself, isn't it more pleasing to listen to a calm, slow paced voice, rather than a highpiched, fast paced voice? Even if people don't talk to you that much, is better to know that the little words you spoke to them made them feel safe around you.

Hajar Hgouch: You are a great public speaker. You did something great that emphasises the fact that you are a great public speaker: letting the audience participate.

Sara Johnson: Next time I'm about to talk to someone I like: "excuse me for a moment" turns the other way "WEEEEEeeeeeeeeAAAHHHhhhhhhh" turns back around "So, how was your day?"

Evangelist Joseph Nabende: Deadly sins on earth

Tamara S: Other than these things, maybe race can be an issue as well? Sometimes i am put in a group with caucasians (not blaming caucasian race here) but most of them don't listen to what i have to say and it makes me anxious to say anything else since they don't listen to my previous opinion. And I can tell you that I'm always avoiding Gossip, Judging, Negativity, Complaining, Excuses, Lying, Dogmatism and I follow the other things as well. I was thinking that maybe since I'm a 5'2 Asian girl that they don't listen to me? Does it has anything to do with race? Perhaps?

Muhammad Zailani: good

John Callaghan: I always wondered why others desperately wanted to sell their ideas, while I was just desperately to sell reality; i was searching every waking moment, and they had stopped searching ages ago. Then I wondered why they laughed at me. Later I learned why they did, as it came across my analysis. And now, no one wants to sell their ideas to me anymore, so it got a little lonely.
Maybe if you walk away from all this 'selling', it will be quiet.

1 For The People: So inspiring. Honesty, so right. Thank you.

Jonathan Chase: This is very clever because in the first five minutes he does absolutely everything he's apparently pillorying.

Alfredo Maza: Sales people MOST never talk like an ordinary people Speak.

IamMe: Why is there number in the URL?

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