Small Talk Do's and Don'ts: http://www.iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/small-talk-skills-small-talk-dos-and-donts-with-papa-alpha/ Alpha M. Confidence Course: http://aaronmarino.com/confidence-course Subscribe To Alpha M. https://www.youtube.com/user/AlphaMconsulting?sub_confirmation=1 My Website: http://www.iamalpham.com My Services and Products: http://www.aaronmarino.com Alpha M. App: http://www.alphamapp.com/ My Website: http://www.iamalpham.com My Services: http://www.aaronmarino.com Free Hairstyle E-Book: http://http://www.iamalpham.com/ezine Best Hair Product: http://www.peteandpedro.com FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/IAmAlphaM In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of http://www.iamalpham.com and http://www.aaronmarino.com, talks about how to make new friends. Finding new friends is not as easy as it sounds, but if you know the process and steps that will increase the chance of you running into your new best friend, you are one step closer to finding that new friend. Friendship is not about whom you've know the longest; it's about who came and never left your side. Aaron Marino of alpha m. has been doing a lot of soul searching lately and he's been considering who he calls 'friends'. These people aren't acquaintances but 'true friends' that you can probably count on one hand. Alpha talks about 'friends by proxy'. He also discusses what happens when you graduate from high school. At this point there's a fork in the road: people stay and people leave. The dilemma during this change is not having friends. How do you make new friends? It's not easy but it's possible by being willing to be uncomfortable and putting yourself out there. Set yourself for success. Friend Finding Tips 1. Spend time around people - if you isolate yourself, you can't make new friends. Be social like going to a sporting event, visiting a coffee shop, go to a bar. 2. Join a club, group, or organization - you'll meet like-minded people 3. Volunteer - do something good for the community while building a bond and camaraderie with those around you 4. Start conversations - talk to everybody! Sometimes the conversations will stick, thus a friendship is started. 5. Small talk - Small Talk Skills 6. Reintroduce yourself at the end of a conversation - get that name to stick! 7. Accept every invitation 8. Ask other people to do things - push yourself outside of your comfort zone and ask others to do things like lunch, coffee, drink, see a concert 9. Keep your friend - be a good friend by listening, being loyal, being trustworthy, being reliable, being yourself
Toxic Wizard: I have "friends" but there some of the most fakest people I know
Acing: I just can't make friends I just don't understand why
Fangirl In fire: I do have two people who I consider my BFF's but they are best friends between they so I feel kinda left out
Ender Dan: I have like so many friends right now.
Tatiana Elagina: I'm jealous of those of you who are still in school. I'm 21 and since my childhood friend left me in middle school I've had 0 friends. I'm always that person everybody hates in every group of people I am in. I feel like I lost my youth and there's no hope of making a friend for me. I've grown terrified of opening up to people thanks to some godawful family and school experiences.
Drowzzy Beats: No friends no friends la li la li la la
h corolla: Some 3 questions for you:
First , thanks for the video , I'm going to incorporate the accepting of invitations this year. I have 2 questions to follow up:
I don't want to do these activities volunteering etc just to make friends , in this case I'll have an ulterior motive, I might as well just ask everyone there: hey , be my friend ?
Second : if conversation is good and it goes on, how do you get people's number to stay in touch and be friends ? What do you say to follow up to make friends aside from saying 'be my friend ?' If there is a good conversation and mutual respect ?
Thirdly , why is finding good new friends not easy ? Is this like a game on who is 'cool' vs 'not cool' or someone who is 'popular'? What if someone has good characteristic but is neither popular nor has many friends because it's just hard (my case), why would it still be hard to find good friends ?
Thanks in advance !
Lia Playz: I just started middle school and it is shit.
If you don't want to read then don't read.
So at school I had every class with my friend that was friends with me since 2nd grade. So we agreed have the same lockers because we have the same classes. I stand regret. Couple days later she was always saying "STOP!" and "You're so annoying!" when I was trying to talk to her. The worst part of the day was always lunch. We would always sit next together. She was always sitting in the middle while I always sat to the side closer to the boys side and my other friend I had my lunch period with sat on the other side. She would always ignore me and talk to my other so called "friend". The worst days in school was in science. She was sitting at my table in science and me and two other girls had to do a project. The project was about planets so each of us had to choose 2 planets to do. Her and the other girls at my table chose their planets while I was sitting there with the leftovers. Shitty, I know. So I peacefully took the paper that had all the information about the planet and wrote it Dow because we had to do it for the project. Unfortunately, she saw me tried to take the paper back. A couple minutes later while we were tugging for the paper she said ,"Wh do you have to be like this?" And I was sitting there like "bitch pleaaazzzeee." So her being selfish and obnoxious, she just HAD to ask the other two girls for help. So then they got all mad at me. So basically I was betrayed. At lunch I had to sit alone without anybody to talk to while she always got the attention that she didn't deserve. Suicidal thoughts👌🏼. You're probably going to comment "Nobody cares" or "You deserve it" or things like that but idc. Well bye my battery is running low it is at 8% 😂😭
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Blazing Blaziken: I came to make friends to get homework answer
TS Legion: I don't know why I think this but his voice is how I picture Links voice from Zelda.
Goeat Raper: Sure I have kids in middle school to hang out with but they don't match my personality
Ryder Wilson: I wanna find true friends who will always support me by my side and I will support them too
AlphanGamer: Never thought I would be watching this
Aqsa: Wow this is so sad that I'm watching this
4emrys: Thank you alpha really
Tpynt The flint: I don't have any @scooby
Galexy Girl: I have friends now a have a lot :)
Tanvi Ambre: You're really cute haha♥️
steathsniper785: What sucks is that I'm in a different country that doesn't speak English so I'm here trying to adapt to the culture and attempting to learn the language better but I feel like a complete outsider and don't feel like everybody has the patience to talk to a foreigner and I'm always treated like "oh poor you he doesn't understand and all that crap" by my classmates so I came here for this vid for some kind of guidance because I feel super lonely more lonely than I felt in the U.S... yea fml ☹
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