Toxic People: How to End a Bad Relationship

This one's for all of you who have ever struggled in a difficult friendship and wondered—how do you end it? Bad friendships can drag you down, but sometimes it's hard to recognize the signs of unhealthy ones. You have to first accept that the nature of a relationship is toxic before you can figure out how to peace out! Watch this video to learn how to successfully break up with your friend and move on. Check out some other awesome episodes of WellCast: 1. Inside Puberty http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rsj6dW6qKRc 2. Coping With Grief http://goo.gl/aD4OH 3. Ways to Stop Bullying http://goo.gl/WOzSy 4. Dealing With Rejection http://goo.gl/f3Pw5 5. Party Survival Guide for Introverts http://goo.gl/WYZVe Want a package deal? Check out our playlists! 1. Top 10 Most Popular WellCast Videos http://goo.gl/nDrJC 2. For Our Introvert Friends http://goo.gl/CeYbO 3. Tips for your Social Life http://goo.gl/ZKkrS 4. Our Relationship and Dating Advice http://goo.gl/ODZZf 5. Study Tips for School! http://goo.gl/0hRQ8 ABOUT WELLCAST: In this twice-a-week show, we explore the physical, mental and emotional paths to wellness. With an emphasis on education, the show addresses both the latest trends and long-standing practices of wellness—everything from the efficacy of the gratitude experiment to the importance of sunshine and vitamin D. Follow along as your host, Kate, guides you through a bi-weekly journaling exercises that helps you apply what you've learned. The ultimate goal: one year, one show, one journal, one collective journey to wellness. Sign up for our WellCast newsletter for more of the love, lolz and happy! http://goo.gl/GTLhb Like us on Facebook! http://goo.gl/0DHVJ Follow us on Twitter! http://goo.gl/Ylcv6 Find us on Google+ http://goo.gl/ylCVT Follow us on Tumblr! http://goo.gl/Ds3TB Follow us on Instagram! http://goo.gl/q3IUC Follow us on Pinterest! http://goo.gl/lNhu2

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Vicky Chu!: This was showed in my class :)

TheLuckyBot: my mom haves a toxic friend and she is so annoying-_- she gets jealous of my mom and she tells her to give her a ride and she lies to my mom.

mirzamay: Abused people, please don't listen to this. It starts out great then turns bad. You don't change yourself from patterns your parents programmed into your subconscious just because someone who obviously never suffered serious long term abuse tells you to.
You don't teach other people how to treat you, or how to behave , they do that on their own. Nor do you teach yourself how to be treated as a small child. We learn these patterns as a child before we even know what is going on. Saying that nothing happens to you that you don't give permission for and that you teach people how to treat you is extremely hurtful and gives absolutely no concrete skills on how to survive this misfortune or to change it.
So for all those here looking for hope and help,you can find better, learn to read the signs of unintentional abuse masquerading as self help.
But keep looking, concrete advice and help is out there and you can eke yourself out of the situation others put you in, it won't be pat or easy, but it will feel better eventually. Search onward.
Edit, watch DoctrSam

Declan Corea: I'm stopping for being friends with my best friend from elementary school and my best friend from middle school (they are complete assholes). I'm tired of being the but of every joke getting bossed around getting punched and shoved. But I have to ride with my ex-best friend from middle school to my house because it's a carpool. He just now bended my shoes and chocked my in another persons car! I'm so done with them. I'm gonna see if I can start walking (40 minutes) home (it's better than having to ride with them).

Emanuela Damaris: I have a friend who constantly drags me down, uses me as a scapegoat and only cares about their own problems. But she gives me more (food etc.) than I can give, because I don't have the money. XC She makes me feel bad about it... like if she's trying to buy my friendship. What should I do? I don't want to be an asshole.

Kw cherrygirl: All I can hear is selfie when she says step

Abby Grace: Thank you for everything you do on this channel! This really does help a lot of people. Thank you for putting something good out into the world :)

Unicorn Gaming: I just left a toxic friend ship I feel like she is the main root of my depression my family does not make much money so if she has something I don't she will make me feel bad or if I get it she will say hers is better

Rosi Tampubolon: I had an Issue with my friends because my annoyingness (or so I thought) and loved to put everything in instastory. We were arguing and one of them say that "I don't deserved to be called a HUMAN". I already changes the my attitude, even my best friends said to that I'm changing for better person. But that word still stab me in my heart and mind up until now.

She even post in her Insta Story saying "Is that person still worthy to be called a HUMAN?"

*refering to me without puting my name

Yesterday (Thursday), I told my movie project group (school project that contains me and my friends (who were once had a problem with me but now I thinks we are OK) that I can't come to the set to shoot because of my piano lesson. And they told me that is my scene (but I come anyway because they insist). And on Friday morning at school this one person (the same one that told me that I don't deserved to be called a HUMAN) told me, "Oci, can't you play by the rules, you know you are just a STUMBLING BLOCKS" and then she left me and changes her seat

I was so annoyed because she don't respect that my schedule is different from them.
They all (my group except me) take extra classes (you have to pay extra for this. Benefit: you got a paper full of the some Material for the next test in regular classes and in finals)

And I know If I make one mistake, everybody will be like before
Nobody in my group will backing me up if I do something wrong again (because of our past)

I already told my best friends and she said that relationship is not healthy
I want to end it but I will have no friends in my class because we still in the same group of friends.

The only way is waiting for 3 weeks until finals then I can escape this toxic people

out of many people in our group, she is the most TOXIC one

Cookiezz Sprinklezz: what if u dont know how to make friends?

BaggiesofSwaggiesGaming: i dont want to confront my "bff" because she might tell the whole school about my yt channel. ugh! idk why i told her about my channel, i tell her about things sometimes that a few seconds later i regret! Its like she wants to make me feel bad. she said i didnt do much work on an essay for school right in front of the english teacher! she just did the whole essay by herself and didnt share it to me until the night before the due date. im so sick of her

Caroline alexandra: i actually believe that my friend is being toxic and trying to bring me down because she's jealous of me. a lot of things are finally going well in my life, but she just ruins everything.

John Pange: Both my parents

Spidahjace316: What if you don't have anyone that loves you , cause every relationship with anyone is toxic?.....

sangawashere: Sometimes it takes more than a line in the sand. Sometimes it takes a freakin' Donald Trump approved wall.

Thebuttonbawse 209: My so called friend was one of the nicest person I knew because she would always help me when I felt sad she was so nice I told her about everything when people were mean to me I sometimes would talk to her about my depeast secrets and now she's being really mean to me and she faught with my other friend and she said she would spill all her secrets and I'm scared to stop being her friend please help me

triple 29495: it's so hard to separate from one specific person when the rest of your friend group is great... idk what to do

Bunny Chocolate: My " Friend " told me something rude about my choice of getting a girlfriend instead of a boyfriend and she would say that other people are lying about what she's saying and ounce I say we're done I always end up back with her. And I'm in the same class as her... My true friend and sister told me to get over her but I always come back to her even though I hate her because she is a backstabbing person...

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